Its the ibt committee.
You are an infidel. Get away from m..
a lovely young woman.
Its only been four dates. And one, was a "meet and greet" for coffee..
There were friends of his there. I didn't even think about that... He's been out of town for a few days and we haven't talked much. For all I know he already knows. But I think he'd say something... But obviously we can't do anything because if I caught something I don't want to give it to him..
Oh man! She is amazing.
I don't think it was okay for you to raise your voice at him either. That certainly didn't help the situation. I see that you acknowledged it wasn't alright and apologized..
Someone please close this thread, I won't be able to reply anymore..
Here's more of her #11533 #21279 #30144.
I would not want to remind friends with her... even when she really would like that....
I beg you to hold off. And if you do get married, print out this thread and put it away for a decade. Take it out and re-assess where you are and be assured you were forewarned by those who have been where you are and know better..
If you're going to go ahead with this do NOT do it in the mindset of a guy who gives flowers. Instead, you're a guy who takes what he wants, and you want her at that moment. Don't be too rough but don't be too romantic either (you sound like me, falling fast for That Girl, and forgetting others, and I've had to learn this the hard way at 19 - I'm 24 now). Just enjoy it.
Unfortunate, because it uses a banned word. Oh well..
Before I say next things I have to tell you, I am trying to really hold my moral standards all the time. While I was talking to her, I told her I never hated her, wished her the best and if she would be happy with someone else, I would be genuinely happy with it as well. She was really emotionally wrapped around herself the first time we met, but back then she seemed as she agreed with my vision of the world. At the end of the meeting, she hugged me and cried, saying she's been waiting all of those 8 months for me, still loved me and wanted so much to see me and be a part of my life. Long story short, we got back together.. Yes, she was madly in love with me, and the one thing that has changed, was that I became much more grounded, happy with the life I've built and not emotionally needy like before, now she was more like it. Unfortunately, it came out that things she claimed changed in her character, were nothing more than a claim. 2-3 months forward she met her ex best friend and seeing this girl being miserable led to her 5 minutes rant about how amazing it is to see her ex best friend having a crappy life. This was our first big argument, as I really despise hatred and this kind of attitude towards the problems, think it is childlish, immature and a sign of a big weakness, which is being dealt with while hurting others. Nothing came out of this argument though, but she stopped, at least to me, being so hateful towards people. Still, she acted like it in a heat of a moment a lot, cursing even her mother at some point..
I do feel that he wants to make a change with this...but there are things that worry me..
Clash strikes again. amazing!.
Exactly! There's a difference between having friends of the opposite sex...and having one friend of the opposite sex who you hang out with several times a week and spend time alone with at each other's houses. I can't believe this is controversial. If I were hanging out at a single guy's house 2-3 times a week, my H would flip a sh-t. With reason!.
I have had the pleasure of meeting Aria not so long ago. I must say it was well worth the wait! I….