Anyone have insight on Domestic violence?.
Maybe I'm wrong, but I can't help but wonder if your insecurity is really masking a wish to defeat her -- which would happen if he actively chose you over her. Since that can't happen, you're stuck wondering and worrying about what would happen if it did come down to a choice. In which case your anxiety is not grounded in anything your boyfriend has done, but in your own wish to prevail over your former friend..
Wow his best friend died....
Damn, cheerleaders didn't look like this back in the day..
Hey if you're by any chance able to contact the other bride's mate, send her a thank you message. Without what she told you, this thread wouldn't have went the same. Trust me I've been on this thing for a minute and seen enough to tell half the comments would've been telling you to give her the benefit of the doubt..
2. You BF has loose boundaries and probably does need to learn a little something about the importance of real honesty in a real relationship..