I do loves the alien invasion bait..
So ive been seeing a girl i met off Tinder (dating/hookup app) 3 months ago. Officially been seeing each other 2 months. I am 27 she is 23 and both professionals, but have a fast social life living in London, UK. I will breakdown the 'relationship' period below..
Not being informed about something as potentially life changing as this is so damaging...who knows what else could be going on that the wives know nothing about? Why should they have to spend another night wringing their hands in desperation, crying out, sick to their stomach with knots of tears and sadness dreaming about finding their way out of this mess that they are in?? Not being able to do anything about it because they have been fed a spoonful of lies and told by everyone around them that they are crazy and need serious help until they really start to believe it....
I don't even know where to begin. The main thing is I cheated. I'm really not that type of person. I never drink and I've never dreamt of cheating, especially on Cody. He was an incredible guy who never made wrong decisions. I just really don't know what to do now. See, this past Saturday I went to a party with my sister as we always do. The only thing different about this party was that I, obviously, got trashed! I ended up making out with two guys. Thats all! Just making out!! I couldn't lie to Cody so on Sunday I told him everything. Now, he doesn't want to speak to me again but I'm hoping that he will let me prove to him that I want to be a better person. I don't know, when we started dating I still wasn't over my ex. It's weird how the second I cheated I realized how incredably much I had screwed everything up. When we started dating I just wanted someone to make me forget about my ex. So, this whole time I was being blinded by the fact that I really did care about him and I really wanted to be with him. He's so much of a better person than me and I look down upon myself because of it but now I realize I should have taken his guidence and changed my life around. I use to be a good person. That was until my dad died. I was 12 years old and without a good influence in my life so I just started doing whatever the hell I wanted. I didn't do drugs or anything of the sort. I've only been drunk a few times and my grades didn't fall so much to where they were off the honor roll list but this isn't me. I'm not doing horrible things right now but I'm making a gradual downfall. I need him back. I need him to believe in me again. What do I do to gain his trust back? What am I suppose to do??? Please help me even if what you have to say isn't that nice. I just want to know the truth..
Recently my boyfriend has been bringing certain things up that make me jelous (out of the blue) and i'm pretty sure he knows what hes doing!.
This is what I'm talking about. What exactly do you think you've achieved with this? Laid down the law? Manned up and stood your ground?.
I am a happy (usually) and outgoing person with a passion for the arts. I'm an active..