If this is the case, where he is now hiding them because you questioned a missing one, its time to walk. I wouldn't confront him because hes just going to deny and lie and deflect. I would pick up my dignity and just walk away..
I purchased a bankrupt little business. I was mainly after their industrial machinery useful in heavy industry. Ya just never know what you're gonna find. The inventory inexplicably included elephant Tusks and Mink coats..
Anyway, I must stick to my guns. To do otherwise now would be defeating all I've done up to this point. I have to love and respect myself and remind myself that I'm worthy of being treated well and that I will no longer stand for crap..
I dunno, I do think both men and women should not try to change aspects of their SOs that were there when they started dating. I'm sure it's something we're all guilty of, but I don't think it's something I'd encourage. I would look very warily at a guy who tried to change things about me - one thing is okay, sure, but they do tend to pile up. One should not get with someone expecting them to change for them..
It really depends on the social circles and classes you mix with...