I would date a woman my age, a year or 2 older,and of course younger..
ok so i confronted my girlfriend about the slowing destroying relationship and we wrote down all the things that bother us i had her read these replys to show her what ppl are saying and she didnt really like them and the ones saying to get rid of her really gave her a kick into reality and she agreed to change and refused to let me change she said i have done to much already but im still gona change without telling her..
My dad was a CPA; 150+ IQ, college graduate back in the 1930's. Smart as a whip. I loved to watch him think..
With women, if you take the extra time to let them know you are a sweet person, this enables their gaurds to lower, and friendship is possible. If they continue with BS and such, then they are not worth being friends with..
I don't think any of us on the "cautiously optimistic" side of things are saying not be excited. It's more to go ahead and be excited that you've met someone with potential! That is exciting! But not to be excited that you've met the love of your life. There's no way you can know that at this point...
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Ok what I bolded above is where I think your insecurity and impatience got the best of you. You could have said the rest of what you said to her and been fine and still shown that you don't want to waste your time and are deserving of an answer. I don't want to drag things out any longer, presumes a bad ending. It's demanding and comes from a negative place and is not confident. The rest of what you said sounds like good communication that comes from a positive, caring place and is your best chance. It also sounds confident and implies that you are assessing the relationship without sounding overly emotional about it nor too invested. You can also do it by matching, as Oregon dude said, the time frame one takes to get back to you. Or match the actions. Or this one is a little game play-y but sometimes I'm not above advising that: when she said she has her independent life, you could have responded: yeah you are right we did kind move things a little fast and I totally get it; there are some things I've been neglecting too. It was just exciting and I got caught up in the moment. The reason that it's game play-y is that is obviously not how you are feeling when you are hearing this for the first time. However, it's really not when you are able to catch your breath, take a step back and realize that if she is dialing down, you want to dial it down too. She is not the only fish in the sea. I mean you said it yourself: that you did not exactly feel as good about her based on her saying/doing this, right? And reasonably, realistic you knows in some ways she is right about this. You will have other options. Operate from a place of abundance and certainty in yourself and your attractiveness. In some ways responding in kind, and specifically like this in this instance provides a reset. It's like a reset button. Basically you are matching her step for step with your/her pace. Now if this is inauthentic to you it's not going to work. But logical, confident you should be able to do this: provide she is holding your interest, no one else comes along and she is not unreasonable with her level of contact. So see why it's important to remain in the moment? Don't jump further ahead than what you are receiving. See when I read her sentence to you, it sounds good and honest. I see it as positive and you are just going too fast for her. Sure it's possible you are just one of several options to her but like you said before, it's open-ended. Think positive from that reply. Your actions and communication will reflect that you see it as such and you will have better results..
The men I have known that deeply enjoy paying are not dating randoms who happen to look good. If you (general you) have to ask wiinfm, then your selection process needs tweaking..
Never understimate how big a deal sex is to women...
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Hi.I'm Stuart but I prefer stu. I'm here to meet people and maybe find someone to share my life with. I'm honest and respectful of everyone as long as they are the same with me. I'm not interested..
My bf met a guy... let's name him Jake because I like that name lol. Jake was Jennifer's boyfriend too during my bf was dating her. Cheating, yeah. Jake asked Jennifer for more pictures (of course, a lover will ask) and then Jennifer said that she didn't feel confident about herself. Funny, because she looked sooo beautiful. Like a Victoria's Secret Angel lol. In the end she sent him different pictures from the first time. Stupid. I won't tell what else Jennifer did because that isn't really the point of this post..
You might get messaged by women who share your viewpoint on this. I do wonder if you will actually put your money w your mouth is and go out w women who contact you even if their looks aren't doing it for you. After all, if you really can't tell whether someone is right for you going by only one date then you surely can't tell whether someone is right for you going by looks, right?.